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Akiva Zablocki's Fundraiser:

10 Yr Brain-Tumor-Free Fundraiser for the Hyper IgM Foundation

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BENEFITING: Hyper IgM Foundation

Akiva Zablocki

THE STORY:

About the Hyper IgM Foundation:

The Hyper IgM Foundation's mission is to improve the treatment, quality of life and the long term outlook for children and adults living with Hyper IGM through research, support, education, and advocacy.

The Hyper IgM Foundation is a recognized 501c3 Charity and all donations are tax deductible.

We thank you for your support and invite you to stay up-to-date on the Foundation’s efforts by connecting with us on Facebook by liking the Hyper IgM Foundation Facebook page, www.facebook.com/HyperIgMFoundation, and by visiting our website, www.hyperigm.org.

Akiva's Story: 

“Based on the rate of growth and the location of your tumor you have around two years to live.” That was the sad prediction I heard from dozens of physicians in the summer of 2005. From New York to Boston to Los Angeles and Jerusalem, everyone around the world we consulted had a different approach, but they all agreed: The brain tumor was “inoperable.” I was twenty five years old and one year away from graduating Columbia University. I was way too young to die. I am still here.

Ten years later, I am alive and well and tumor free and the only prediction that came true was the one given by Dr. Robert Spetzler in Phoenix, Arizona. With a big smile on his face he said: “I am 95% confident I can get your whole tumor out, and leave you in not much worse condition than you are now.” At first, it seemed his proclamation might have been an overstatement. On November 8, 2005, Dr. Spetzler successfully remove my whole tumor. While my family was assured the next day that the tumor was all out, and I would be fine, at the time it did not look like it. I was in an induced coma, intubated and had tubes sticking in and out all over my body. I only woke up four days later, when they were finally able to extubate me. I could not feel or move the left side of my body. I could not talk, walk, swallow or do much of anything. The right side of my face was paralyzed and numb, and I could not smile or even hold water in my mouth without it dripping out. Like a newborn baby, I was cradled and tended to by my family and an amazing team of nurses at St. Joseph's Hospital in Phoenix. Every day Dr. Spetzler came by during rounds, looked at my broken and weak body, and proclaimed, “he is doing great!” Everything will be okay. Eleven days later, I was transferred by plane and wheelchair to NYC to Rusk Rehabilitation Center for what we were told would be a very slow and long process of rehab. There, I learned to walk, talk, swallow and was able to be released to outpatient in three weeks. I continued my rehabilitation out-patient while I resumed classes at Columbia. The right side of my face was paralyzed, and numb, and I had set a personal goal to smile once again.

Two years later, in November 2007, I had my diploma from Columbia and went on to obtain an MPH at the Mailman School of Public Health. I was dating the love of my life and was doing great, physically and professionally. But I still could not smile. Sure, I could mostly drink without spilling water out of the side of my mouth, and I had even perfected a method of blowing up balloons. But I had not reached my goal. The cranial nerve that controlled my face was cut or damaged and was not coming back. The doctors had told me over and over again: most deficit improvement is seen in the first 3-6 months. After that, some might still get better in the first 2 years post surgery. But after those two years, things will not improve or come back. My fate was sealed. I may have been reborn as the superhero, iPatchman, but I was destined to always be defeated by DC Comics’ Two-Face.

Two years later, November 2009, marked some of the happiest days of my life. I just married my true love. I had a dream job in healthcare consulting and life was good. I had outlived all predictions and was tumor free for four years. And despite the utter joy, I could not fully smile. I had perfected the Zoolander Blue Steel look for photos. My wife, Amanda had fallen in love with my half grin and I could not complain. Most people in my situation did not live to tell the tale, and I was complaining about a smile? I continued to refuse offers to surgically stitch my face in a permanent Joker grin and continued my own physical therapy and exercise to keep the little muscle tone I had on my right side of my face.

Two years later, in November 2011, now six years post-brain surgery, I sat at Nonna's Italian Restaurant on the Upper West Side for my birthday dinner with Amanda. She handed me my birthday present. A little red box with yellow teddy bears. Inside, little baby booties and a handwritten note on tissue paper, with the message “To the greatest love we will ever know.” She was informing me that she was expecting. We were going to have a baby in eight months. Inside, my joy was endless, and yet I still could not smile. Just my regular half grin in response to the best news anyone can get. Two years later, by November 2013, we had experienced both extremes of any parents’ emotional spectrum. From the new happiest day of my life, the day my son Idan was born, to the scariest and saddest day of our life, the day he was intubated for PCP pneumonia. Even if I wanted to smile, I could not. We were filled of hope now, and longing for a normal life again. Just a few weeks after Idan’s bone marrow transplant, I celebrated my 8th year tumor free. I was full of hope that by my ten-year anniversary Idan would be cured and everything will be back to normal. I stopped believing that I would ever smile fully again, even if I wanted to.

Today, two years later, Idan is not cured. We are heading towards a second bone marrow transplant in the spring, and life might never be normal. But hope is still part of every drop of my being. The same unrelenting perseverance that allowed me to live through an inoperable brain surgery has kept my son alive and well and found him the best care he could receive. My education, life experience and optimism serve me now as the president and co-founder of the Hyper IgM Foundation. Our mission is not only to cure Idan, but to work for a cure for all families and children living with Hyper IgM. I know this can be achieved. I know happiness is possible. I know normality is a state of mind. I know all this because I spend the day smiling. A full smile. I spend the day smiling when Idan wakes up in the morning with a million questions as if the night was just a fleeting moment. I spend the day smiling when I see Idan play with his little cousin and they both laugh uncontrollably. And I spend the day smiling when Idan is solving puzzles way too advanced for his age or building lego sets made for six-year olds.

Sometime, over the last two years of trying to achieve normality in a post transplant world, my smile just appeared. Despite all medical predictions of how or when deficits can recover, I am able to smile with both sides of my face now. Ten years, brain tumor free, and I am smiling every morning when I wake up next to Amanda and when Idan calls us into his room. If my smile can appear again ten years after it was removed along with a tumor that had my name on it, I know that anything is possible. I invite you all to help me make that which is impossible a reality. Help me bring a smile to the families across the world dealing with Hyper IgM Syndrome. Donate today to my ten year brain-tumor-free fundraising page.

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To This Fundraiser

$1,093

MONEY RAISED
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  • iPatchman

    $100

  • Anonymous

    $50

  • Anonymous

    $50

  • Anonymous

    $20

  • Benjamin Flusberg

    $50

  • cat

    $70

  • Anonymous

    $18

  • packins

    $180

  • Ruby Gelman and Shimon Shkury

    $180

  • d and i rabinovitch

    $75

  • Dror

    $100

  • Libbie and Tzahi Sagiv

    $18

  • Anonymous

    $100

  • Anonymous

    $36

  • Anonymous

    $10

  • judy kamber

    $36

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55% Raised of $2,000 Goal

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The Team: $1,093 TOTAL RAISED SO FAR

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Donor Comments

judy kamber

judy kamber

DONATION: $36

1 year ago

Anonymous

ANONYMOUS

DONATION: $10

2 years ago

Anonymous

ANONYMOUS

DONATION: $36

2 years ago

Anonymous

ANONYMOUS

DONATION: $100

In tribute to you and your family and the good work you are doing helping others facing the same grim diagnoses with positive outlook and determination and faith. 2 years ago

Libbie and Tzahi Sagiv

Libbie and Tzahi Sagiv

DONATION: $18

Kol hakavod to you guys - you are an inspiration! 2 years ago

Dror

Dror

DONATION: $100

2 years ago

d and i rabinovitch

d and i rabinovitch

DONATION: $75

2 years ago

Ruby Gelman and Shimon Shkury

Ruby Gelman and Shimon Shkury

DONATION: $180

Truly inspiring! 2 years ago

packins

packins

DONATION: $180

A truly inspiring story of strength and positive outlook! 2 years ago

Anonymous

ANONYMOUS

DONATION: $18

Your strength and faith are inspirational. 2 years ago