Amber for her daughters
Organized by: Amber Macadangdang
About eight months ago my family had a major tragedy. My father whom we lived with was having an adult sexual relationship with my daughter who is now 14. He also attempted to molest my other daughter she is now 13. We have lost absolutely everything our home, trust, and some family, we've been living with friends and family and that's very hard on everybody involved. The girls have been horribly bullied at school, they both suffer from serious anxiety issues, i have been called to their schools. It has been in the news paper. Christmas was very hard. Holiday are hard. Going anywhere is hard because everything reminds one or all of us about a memory of him. I'm trying everything possible to keep my head above water but I keep drounding. I work full time, I go to college full time also. But I havnt been unable to find housing the harder I work it seems like the less that I have. On average I've been going to court weekly sometimes twice a week sometimes every other week.not to mention all of the meetings with the lawyers. I have missed a lot of work and school due to all of this. However the real victims here are my daughters they deserved to have their own space, their own room, a safe haven so that they can just go and be and do what they want in their own room. To feel safe. I'm trying so hard to be strong for these girls but everyday gets harder and harder there hasn't been a day in the last 8 months that I haven't cried because of this situation. We have tried counseling didn't really feel like it was working, but I think it's time that we go back to counseling, however it is very expensive. The girls have medical through the state, however, I do not. I just feel like I'm getting close to the very big breakdown and this case is not coming to an end soon enough. I just ask that if anybody can do anything to help us out would be more than appreciate thank you very much in advance.