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Help my Best Friend be a Mommy : (

Organized by: Louise Tait

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May 04, 2016

This little girl was carried by a surrogate because her Mommy also couldn't have children. This means so much to me Diana. Thank you so much. See More


I am a proud Mommy of three gorgeous girls. Blessed right? More than you can imagine. God's blessings did not stop there. He blessed me with the kindest best friend anyone could ask for. Why I'm so lucky I don't know, I feel almost guilty for being this happy. She has the purist heart I've ever seen in anyone. Her true love in life have always been children. She does not know this, but I can't help her alone, I need help. Alright, here goes nothing....... ( please note I am not using her real name... I am already bearing her soul without her knowing...It’s the least I can do) I have been friends with Amy for 15 years. We met when we were 21 years old. From the beginning we had this unique connection, like we were long lost sisters. When I was 25 I went through a dark time in my life, I lost my parents and my husband (what a wonderful man he was) all within 6 months. A week after my husband's death I found out I was 7weeks pregnant. I wanted to die at that moment, how can someone be so happy and so sad at the same time?? It broke me. But I had Amy. I struggled making ends meet. When I could not afford the mortgage anymore and when I could afford the expenses that goes with having a baby, Amy took me in. She bought a three bedroom house just so that we could have a place to stay. She supported us through everything. 4 years later, we both got married. I had my 2 other daughters and I was so happily married, I still am. Bit Amy wasn't that lucky. She suffered 4 miscarriages. She went through he'll and back and it broke her knowing that she would never be able to have children. As if that wasn't bad enough... Tom (her husband) left her, because, and I quote, " she could not give to him what a woman is supposed to be able to give a man". He told her he wants the family name to live on, and he could not handle her having a medical problem. He left her. Just like that. And then I found this out... she took out a huge loan at the bank, to buy the 3 bedroom house for us to live in, she couldn't pay the loan anymore, after her husband left she lost everything. I have been taking care of her for the past couple of years. But it breaks my heart to see her putting on a mask and pretending to be happy, for my children's sake. I find myself asking God all the time, how can someone so good and kind have such heartache and so much sadness in her life, I don't understand why she has to suffer like this. I cannot take it anymore, I cannot stand to see her like this. All she wants is a family of her own. She doesn't care about money or any material things. So I am putting my heart out to you, and I am going to ask you to help me help her. I want to pay off her loan and get her a decent place to live, where she can be happy, where she will be able to raise her baby (we are currently helping her adopt a child from Ethiopia) you should see the sparkle in her eyes when she talks about it. It brings me to tears everytime. Even if it's $1, it will make a difference. Please. If I could I would take on everything by myself. But I need help, your help and together with God's grace I will be able to see the joy in my best friends life again. It is my one and only wish, to see her dream of becoming a Mommy come true.



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