Help Bhanu survive
Organized by: Chitiz Bhandari
my friend needs me so do i please HELP me save my friend in every possible way as immediate as possible A sincere APPEAL TO SAVE A LIFE Dear you who have been so much of an integral part of my life through facebook and otherwise- I wish I did not have to make this appeal on behalf of my friend who is battling against life. I wish I did not know Aryaan (Bhanu) ever only to hear about this bitter truth. I am deeply saddened and at loss of words. I wish I didn't have to wake up this morning to know that life can be so so cruel.... sharing Aryaan's message below- Life is really uncertain. It is hard to determine when this beautiful creation of God comes to an end. But, the bitter reality is that death is the ultimate truth. Human body on the other hand is undoubtedly the ware house of various diseases which could even is life threatening sometimes. Despite of this uncertainty regarding life and its existence, we people have strange and never ending hope to live. Nobody wants to suffer, nobody wants to cry. How could I separate myself from this reality of world? I too want to live, to laugh, and to pursue the overall happiness anybody could desire of. While I’m being carried away with all this metaphysical reality I certainly find myself suffocated, with my eyes struggling to shed extra more drop of tear in the hospital bed. I fear to imagine the consequences of my disease; I fear to connect with it. I, BHANU BHAKTA ARYAL, aged 23, raised up in the remote area of Kolhuwa vdc, ward no 3, Nawalparasi, Nepal, am struggling for my life in the so called golden age of human life. According to the doctors involved in my treatment, my both kidneys are now totally dysfunctional. I was about to graduate and was planning to join the civil service soon after my graduation. But my dreams got shattered and left behind due to these unfavourable circumstances of my life. I was pursuing my Bachelors in Business Administration (BBA) in one of the finest business school of the country through the university granted scholarship. As I was preparing myself for my final semester’s examination, I was diagnosed with END STAGE RENAL DISEASE (CKD-5) due to accelerated hypertension. According to the doctor’s advice, I am at the moment going through HAEMODYALYSIS twice a week, which is Costly and not even a permanent solution to my disease. Due to the unavailability of sophisticated Haemodialysis Machineries in the so called best hospital of the nation, it is making me weaker and fragile day by day. Even though, my father is willing to donate his kidneys to me, I am not able to undergo through the transplant surgery due to the financial crisis. My parents, who had hardly earned their living through farming, could not even imagine of bearing this huge expense. I can’t even imagine how hard it feels for any parents to go through seeing their child through such pain and struggling for his life while they are themselves helpless. Even though at this stage of life I was supposed to help my family, but here sometimes I find myself being a burden to them. They can neither let go nor have the capability to overcome the fatalness of this problem. How hard is it for someone to beg for their life? Still I have no other choices rather than to appeal with all the people around the world, Known or unknown, near or far, to help me save my life. I don’t want to die, I want to live. I want to pursue my dreams, I need to see a whole new world, and I want to see the smile of my parents while they are proud at me. I just want to appeal for those who take a minute and are willing to help someone save his life. If you want to help me, by donation or any other way, contact me via the following. MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL!