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This project is a tribute to the children and adults who are living with cancer and those who love and care for them.

How different it is to hear from one's diagnosing oncologist,
"Your diagnosis is a tough one. 

I am going to work with you and hope that we can get you well.
than the words too often heard,
"We have few options for your diagnosis.
It is best that you go home, enjoy your family, and get your papers in order."
If we hold the belief that a person can contribute to healing
by accessing the power of HOPE and the mind-body connection,
the latter response is unacceptable.

I am designing a series of books about HOPE
to be presented to newly diagnosed patients at the time of their diagnosis.
The books will be compilations of vignettes or statements written by cancer survivors who wish to offer words of hope
at the time these persons need support the very most.

These books will be presented to the patients and their families
by their oncologists, nurse practitioners or social workers
or put at their bedsides if they are hospitalized.

Tentatively titled,
the first book will be made by children for children who are newly diagnosed (High Hopes);
the second by adults who offer hope to adult patients (I Am With You);
and the third will be "miracles" (Believe in Miracles) ....
those stories written by cancer survivors who 'defied medical statistics'
and are here to tell the tale and inspire patients in treatment.
Subsequent books may cover survivorship, dealing with our loved ones,
meditation and guided visualizations, and support systems ...
all centered on HOPE.

The books will be sponsored and distributed by hospital foundations, cancer organizations, individuals, and corporate entities
that are committed to the healing of cancer patients.

It is my hope that these books will be translated into various languages.

The audience will be every child, teen, young adult, and adult
who is diagnosed with cancer and needs support for the challenges ahead.
On those difficult first nights after a diagnosis,
I can see these short, heart-filled books planting seeds of hope.

In my work with thousands of cancer patients,
a 10-year survivor of stage 4 ovarian cancer,
a clinical psychologist specializing in work with cancer patients and their families,
and as the founder and Executive Director of Nancy's List and Nancy's Club
which serve the psycho-social needs of both children and adult cancer patients,
I am aware that our usual psychological work with cancer patients
begins when they have had poor responses to treatment
and have lost their spirit, their hope, and their courage.
They are depressed, scared, giving up.
Many want to stop the treatment protocol.
Our professional intervention at that moment is oftentimes too late.
It is urgent that we 'meet' these persons when they are first diagnosed
and in 'shock and awe', fearing for their future and that of their loved ones.

As we look to the explanation for why some people "defy medical statistics"
and survive insurmountable obstacles in their cancer treatment
and why others resist treatment and do not endure,
we seem to land on that vague and indefinable notion
that there is a significant psychological mechanism at work.
As a psychologist, I wonder ...
Is that a mind-set that a person is born with ... or develops with life?
Can it be encouraged by the medical professional who engages with this individual?
Science has shown the benefits of hope in the healing process.
It is our purpose to encourage their courage.

Cancer survivors are eager to share information 
that helped them to deal with the cancer journey.
If we can offer newly diagnosed patients a beautiful book of hope, wisdom, and compassion
to have with them by the bedside on the first day,
we will make a true contribution to their personalized healing relationship to their cancer.
We want these patients to know they are not alone ...
thus, the title of the series, "I Am With You."

I hope that you can envision the promise of this project as I do
and that you will consider supporting its development.

We can make a difference. We always do.

With immense gratitude,
240 Almonte Boulevard
Mill Valley, CA 94941



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