Family Hope and a Legacy of Love
Organized by: Indie's Family
Let me start by saying, my mother meant the world to me. We were very close. So close that we lived near each other, talked daily and helped each other through good and bad. She always worked hard, gave of herself in time, care, or funds, when relatives were in need. She was the sturdy backbone everyone relied on. My mother has passed, and I am so lost. She had been ill for more than 6 years, and steadily got worse with each passing year. It broke my heart to see her suffering on a daily basis. We tried many, many times trying to get doctors to listen, with always being told, "Its all in your head" and "There is nothing wrong". Several years of this, as her body deteriorated more and more. Until in 2015, her organs started not working correctly. Several years of flesh rotting on her body. Several years of losing her ability to walk. Several years of vision problems, brain fog, kidneys, heart, bloody wounds opening, fungal skin infections to name a few, with a good idea of the what you were exposed to, asking for specific tests, but they still tell you its all in your head, and want to put you on 20 different meds for the symptoms, but not deal with whats causing a woman who was always the picture of vitality and health, to steadily decline. On August 7, 2015, at 5am, I got a call from the hospital, that my mother had lost her battle, and everything changed. Now, I am trying to hold on to what I can for the sake of my child. My mother had policies, and benefits to help mind her affairs, but they are not being honored. We had numerous accounts that both our names are on, and other commitments that are just piling up. I am now solely responsible for, including finding movers, legal fees, finding storage or selling her beloved items, and all the bills, while trying to continue to pay the additional expense of the monthly obligations of her home. There isn't even enough for a decent memorial in her honor. I have found no help with any forsight of legalities without payment that I just do not have. I'm a single, disabled mother of a seven year old, who lost the only other family he knew, and have no one else in my life to help or turn to, to help me find answers. Many Thanks and Blessings, to all who read this.