8 years ago I was married to a very selfish man. I needed dental work, getting a new 4 wheeler came first. He needed gastric bypass it got done. I needed just lap band but I was expected to loose 5with out the surgical assistance. Well in 2009 I finally had enough emotional and physical abuse. I put life on hold to cate for my mother she passed away in 2014. I have tried but still need dental and the lapband to return to my healthy weight before it's too late.