Losing a spouse is beyond imaginable in the worst way. Your life changes in an instant and is never the same. You have to create a whole new life that does not include the person with whom you vowed to spend the rest of your life. It is easy to lose hope and hard to find purpose. Being able to do something that you never dreamed possible can restore hope and give you the courage to find purpose. The Live the List Nonprofit was founded to give widows and widowers the opportunity to do something to restore their hope and help them find purpose. I had the opportunity to participate in an adventure trip put together by the leaders of One Fit Widow, the organization that created Live the List. We went to Bali, Indonesia. This was so outside of my realm of possibilities, but made me feel more alive than I have felt since my husband died. Help me to help Live the List continue to grant wishes to widows and widowers, and their children, that are outside their realm of possibilities and that gives them hope, something they desperately need.