My husband Vishnu, recently revealed during a talk about me working outside the home, that I can't, he will not allow it, because He is afraid I will leave him if I had my own earnings, and he will not gain residency if I divorced him. Now, my intentionwas to look for work so I can provide more for my son, husband is/was Financially and verbally abusive. Now, after he came clean, I want to divorce his butt and make an example of him!!! You cannot conduct yourself in a deceiving manner in US and hurt an innocent person and three month old baby. I was in process of reporting him to State Police, and he took off leaving me penniless with a baby. Any donations will be used toward divorce#1, and a small amount for childcare so I can get to work before he ruins life of me and my son.