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Team Family Reach Boston 2012

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February 27, 2012

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BENEFITING: FAMILY REACH FOUNDATION

ORGANIZER: FAMILY REACH FOUNDATION

EVENT: 2012 Boston Marathon

EVENT DATE: Apr 16, 2012

Cindy Houle

THE STORY:

 

A Family Reach Story

 

Facing Each Day with Grace and Determination

 

Shauna and Craig had no idea that their lives would soon be turned upside down.  In late February of 2010, Shauna noticed that her very young daughter, Madison’s belly seemed bigger and took her to the doctor.   The enlarged belly turned out to be swelling in the liver and spleen caused by Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia (ALL), a common form of childhood leukemia.  Madison was diagnosed on March 1, 2010 at 1 ½ years old.   She is now about half way through her extensive treatment period which will last just over two years.

 

Almost from the start, Shauna was dealing with an emergent situation, the first of several during the course of Madison’s illness.  During a bone marrow aspiration to determine the type of cancer, serious complications occurred on the operating table requiring Madison to be connected to life support for a few days.  Like so many other children going through cancer treatment, emergent visits to hospitals for treatment of infections were not uncommon for Madison, but later that year in December, Shauna and Craig had another big scare after Madison developed a cold and fever.  Her blood counts were low resulting in low oxygen levels in the bloodstream and difficulty fighting the infection.  She became sicker and sicker and was rushed into the hospital’s Intensive Care Unit.  “It was so scary.  We didn’t know if she would make it through this or not.  Then she all of a sudden just got better!”   Shauna marvels at the resiliency Madison has shown in life threatening situations, “She’s always pulled through.” 

 

In addition to resiliency, Madison has shown a high degree of adaptability to treatment and the hospital environment.  “She just loves medical stuff and knows a lot!”  Madison’s ability to adapt has also helped Shauna to cope.  “She’s kind of inspiring.  She doesn’t understand that this (situation) isn’t normal.  She doesn’t have the fear.  She just kind of marches through like ‘You have to deal with this because this is the way it is!’  She gives me the strength to get through the day.” 

 

Shauna also draws strength from the other moms who have children with cancer whom she has come to know at Dana Farber Cancer Institute where Madison is treated.   “The moms band together.  It’s a new community.”  In addition to providing emotional support, Shauna’s interaction with the other moms keeps her own situation in perspective.  “You never know what’s gonna happen.  No matter how bad you have it, somebody always has things worse.”

 

Prior to Madison’s diagnosis with ALL, Shauna was working full-time in a dialysis center and studying full-time to become a nurse.  Though a go-getter, Shauna expresses no frustration about having to put her work and education aside.  She is completely focused on the care of her daughter and accepts the situation at hand with grace and determination.  “There is nothing we can do and we can’t change it so you do whatever you have to do.  You just address the problem of the day.’  Shauna also recognizes that her training has equipped her to deal with the challenges of caring for a child with cancer.  “It (nurse’s training) does help.  In a weird sort of way I was meant for this job and I’m good at this job.” 

 

Like so many families dealing with cancer, Shauna and Craig incurred new expenses associated with their daughter’s treatment while simultaneously having to adjust to a lower household income.   Shauna had to stop working in order to care for Madison.   Among the expenses added have been gasoline costs associated with traveling back and forth to Dana Farber as well as parking.  In addition, they have incurred costs associated with repairs on their car and also uncovered medical expenses.   With only Craig currently employed, the family has had to reach out to families, friends and organizations to meet their everyday living expenses in addition to the new expenses associated with Madison’s treatment.  “Every month I come up short but even with bills piling up, you have to put one foot in front of the other.  You have to fight!’ exclaimed Shauna.

 

Family Reach Foundation is one of the organizations that has come to the family’s rescue as they struggle to meet their financial obligations so necessary for maintaining the stability needed for Madison’s ongoing and successful treatment.   In collaboration with pediatric oncology social workers at Dana Farber, Family Reach provided a generous grant to cover the family’s high utility bills.  Just prior to Madison’s diagnosis, the family moved to a new space where they have been experiencing much higher than anticipated heating costs.  Shauna was amazed and deeply grateful for the assistance provided by Family Reach.  “It was awesome!  I just needed it.  I’m beyond thankful.  I would do anything I could to give back.” 

 

She also expressed her appreciation for the shopping spree around the holidays arranged by Family Reach Foundation in partnership with Wal-Mart Corporation.  Shauna, Craig and Madison were one of several families chosen to receive a $500 gift card donated by Wal-Mart.  With the gift card, Shauna and Craig purchased much needed household supplies and Christmas gifts for Madison.    Shauna and Craig were extremely grateful for this gift. 

 

In addition to the much needed financial assistance, Shauna and Craig appreciated the heartfelt support given by Family Reach Foundation, Director of Development and Special Programs, Carla Tardif.  “She (Carla) really cares.  It’s not just a job for her.  She really cares!” 

 

Madison, now 2 and still in treatment, is doing well.  She loves to play with all of her dolls and is very nurturing.  With the weather beginning to warm up her mom reports that she now enjoys playing on the swings.  She also loves to play with her daddy, Craig.

 

Though Shauna would rather not be in her current situation with Madison, she accepts it for what it is and makes the most of it.  “This is just what happens.  You have to deal with it.  It’s made me a stronger person.”

 

$4,745

MONEY RAISED
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  • therese wingert

    $100

  • Mary Lewis

    $100

  • Anonymous

    $100

  • Mix Family

    $100

  • Katie Greeley

    $100

  • Strecks

    $100

  • Brian and Carolyn Walsh

    $100

  • Hain Family

    $100

  • Alison Naftal

    $100

  • Cheryl & Joe Vozzella

    $100

  • Senior Houle's

    $100

  • Harold Chittick

    $150

  • Anonymous

    $50

  • The Driscoll Family

    $100

  • The Fagan family

     

  • Chris & Heather Parker

    $250

  • Myers family

     

  • Ina & Jeff Rose

    $100

  • The Olson Family

    $100

  • Liam, Devin, Addison Fitzgerald

    $20

  • Kiley Family

    $50

  • Colette Chittick

    $500

  • Susan Marius

    $100

  • Elizabeth Scamperle

    $50

  • John & Lauren Addonizio

    $100

  • Century 21 Commonwealth

    $100

  • Karen Boukari

    $25

  • Cynthia Scali

    $50

  • Laura Krotky

    $50

  • Diane Wheeler

    $50

  • The Offner Family

    $50

  • Fenerlis Family

    $100

  • The McCutcheon Family

    $100

  • Go, Cindy!!!!

    $250

  • The Hickey Family

    $50

  • Monica Ferguson

    $500

  • Deborah & Michael Chittick

    $100

  • Marilyn Campbell

    $100

  • Barbara & David Manganaro

    $50

  • The Karp Family

    $50

  • Forcione Family

    $100

  • Doug Cheney

    $50

  • The Houle Family

    $100

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95% Raised of$5,000 Goal

The Team: $36,745 TOTAL RAISED SO FAR

Fundraiser Title

Carla Tardif

Amount Raised

$23,694

 

158% Raised of$15,000 Goal

Fundraiser Title

Marsha Ralls

Amount Raised

$7,595

 

30% Raised of$25,000 Goal

Fundraiser Title

Cindy Houle

Amount Raised

$4,745

 

95% Raised of$5,000 Goal

Fundraiser Title

karen palmer

Amount Raised

$525

Fundraiser Title

FAMILY REACH FOUNDATION

Amount Raised

$186

Donor Comments

The Karp Family

The Karp Family

DONATION: $50

7 years ago

Forcione Family

Forcione Family

DONATION: $100

7 years ago

Doug Cheney

Doug Cheney

DONATION: $50

7 years ago

The Houle Family

The Houle Family

DONATION: $100

7 years ago

Barbara & David Manganaro

Barbara & David Manganaro

DONATION: $50

7 years ago

Marilyn Campbell

Marilyn Campbell

DONATION: $100

7 years ago

Deborah & Michael Chittick

Deborah & Michael Chittick

DONATION: $100

7 years ago

Monica Ferguson

Monica Ferguson

DONATION: $500

7 years ago

The Hickey Family

The Hickey Family

DONATION: $50

7 years ago

Go, Cindy!!!!

Go, Cindy!!!!

DONATION: $250

Go, Cindy! Go, Cindy!! 7 years ago