joshua elliott wrote -Victoria was really amazing and we all miss her like crazy. The world has lost a truly unique and special and crazy and awesome and incredible person. Everything and anything feels useless and stupid and no words or deeds can possibly make us feel whole again. But maybe we can take some solace in the things Victoria cared about. She devoted her life to helping people who were in distress. She would help anyone. Literally often she would meet strangers at bars and within 20 minutes they were telling her all their secrets and she was giving them advice that would change their life. But she took special joy in helping young women and girls and LGBT youth who had suffered trauma or abuse or bullying. And I think she would like it if we did whatever little thing we could to continue to help those people in her name.