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Bethany Meissner's Fundraiser:

Toby's Triumph

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Bethany Meissner

THE STORY:

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All you need to do is click the "Register" button on this page and you'll be taken to the EventBrite registration for the Stride and Thrive 5K and 1 mile run/walk taking place on May 15.

What are some of the signs and symptoms of "below the belt" cancers?

  • An unusually long  or heavy period
  • Bloating
  • Nausea
  • Unusual vaginal bleeding or discharge
  • Trouble urinating
  • Pelvic pain
  • Pain during intercourse
  • Abdominal or back pain
  • Changes in bathroom habits
  • Changes in the vulva

These symptoms aren't always cancer. They could be relatively easy-to-remove fibroids or something else that can be fixed fairly simply. However, it's important if you're experiencing any of these symptoms to talk to a doctor. If your doctor dismisses your concerns or fails to give you an exam, seek a second opinion. Seeking a second opinion after my first doctor failed me was what led to my cancer being discovered. 
Learn more about below the belt cancers from the CDC.

Why am I walking and raising money?

I'm walking because women and girls are too often told both explicitly and implicitly that their pain doesn't matter because it's just the price of being female. 

I'm walking because a year ago I had no idea that the symptoms I was experiencing could be something serious, let alone that they could be cancer.

I'm walking because if friends, including one who warned that sometimes excessive bleeding and pain could be the sign of a tumor, hadn't told me to seek a second opinion I might not have known I had cancer until too late.

I'm walking because back at Christmas, being able to walk a mile seemed as fantastical as walking into the TARDIS. It's because every time I go for a walk now I'm amazed and grateful that I simply can walk, even if I still stop to catch my breath or don't quite walk at my old speed yet. I'm walking because -- by the grace of God; the kindness and support of my friends in ways too numerous to list here; and the absolute brilliance of Doctor Fader, her team, and the oncology nurses at Johns Hopkins; and the earlier researchers and women they tried to help -- I'm around and able to walk.
 


Why “Toby’s Triumph” for a team name?

Toby is my darling cat. He came from a shelter and is one of many pets who helped their people get through cancer. Before my cancer was found, when I was anemic and in pain, Toby would curl up by my feet and keep me company. When I came home after my third surgery last year, Toby was insistent on protecting me from the people he thought responsible for keeping me away from him. The day I married my husband, just after my first chemo cycle, Toby purred in my arms for photos before the ceremony. When chemo left me crabby and tired, Toby made me laugh with his antics. He knew that something was wrong and he showed love in the best way he could. The friends and doctors who helped me over the past year are too numerous to list as a team name. Toby's Triumph just seemed appropriate.

Besides, I like alliteration.

 

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$1,630

MONEY RAISED
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  • Jennifer Lancaster

    $50

  • Anonymous

    $10

  • Jonna

     

  • Kathi Kowalski and Mike Meissner

     

  • Anonymous

    $250

  • Jeffrey Peterson

    $100

  • Beth Brown

    $25

  • Chris Meissner

    $50

  • Laura & Abe

     

  • Danielle & Patrick Byrnett

     

  • The Pistentis Clan

     

  • John & Becky Susany

    $100

  • Jim Forbes

     

  • Paul Werner

     

  • Becky

    $15

  • Alicia January

    $25

  • Missy Gajewski

    $20

  • Rachel Bohlen

    $50

  • Holly Leber & Joe Simmons

     

  • Annie Lynsen

    $25

  • Leta

    $25

  • Dave & Marge Lanzola

    $25

  • Nancy and Dick Cause

     

  • Christy Batta

    $25

  • Aquilent Friend

    $25

  • Arie Stock

    $25

  • Regina Lam

    $25

  • Peggy and Bill

     

  • Maureen & Brian Lakin

    $25

  • Melissa Esposito & Dan Malouff

    $10

  • Terry and Bruce Bundy

    $50

  • Another Aquilent friend

    $25

  • Ed and Jane Kowalski

    $100

  • Anonymous

     

  • Joan Laurie

    $25

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163% Raised of $1,000 Goal

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The Team: $1,630 TOTAL RAISED SO FAR

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Bethany Meissner

Amount Raised

$1,430

 

143% Raised of $1,000 Goal

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Kathiann Kowalski

Amount Raised

$200

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Laura Meissner

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Abe D

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Donor Comments

Joan Laurie

Joan Laurie

DONATION: $25

4 months ago

Anonymous

ANONYMOUS

1 year ago

Ed and Jane Kowalski

Ed and Jane Kowalski

DONATION: $100

For Beth and for everyone supporting her and her fight! 1 year ago

Another Aquilent friend

Another Aquilent friend

DONATION: $25

1 year ago

Terry and Bruce Bundy

Terry and Bruce Bundy

DONATION: $50

1 year ago

Melissa Esposito & Dan Malouff

Melissa Esposito & Dan Malouff

DONATION: $10

1 year ago

Maureen & Brian Lakin

Maureen & Brian Lakin

DONATION: $25

1 year ago

Peggy and Bill

Peggy and Bill

1 year ago

Regina Lam

Regina Lam

DONATION: $25

1 year ago

Arie Stock

Arie Stock

DONATION: $25

1 year ago